May 2, 2024

My Fair Lady #2

Last week I wrote about a new ending of the musical “My Fair Lady” in which Liza Dolittle does not stay with Henry Higgins, but demonstrates her independence and leaves to go out in the world on her own.

I ended the blog post by writing:

“It’s clear times have changed since Shaw wrote “Pygmalion” in 1913 when women’s life options were severely limited and controlled by a patriarchal society and in 1956 and 1964 when the play and movie “My Fair Lady” were produced. Liza had few choices.

Today, Liza could be, probably should be, president…of news, of sales, of America.”

As of Wednesday, January 12, add a men’s professional baseball manager to the list of jobs that Liza could have. The NY Times reported:

Rachel Balkovec, a groundbreaking baseball coach, will become the manager of a team in the Yankees’ minor league system, making her the first woman to lead an affiliated professional baseball squad.

Balkovec, 34, will manage the Tampa Tarpons, the low Class A affiliate of the Yankees, for the 2022 season, which begins in April. The Yankees hired her in November 2019 as a hitting coach in their minor leagues. She was believed to be the first woman hired as a full-time hitting instructor by a big-league team.

One thing that Rachel has in common with Liza is that both wanted to improve their language skills. Liza wanted to learn to speak proper upper-class English so she could open up a flower shop, and Rachel learned Spanish so she could communicate more effectively with Spanish-speaking players.

In a January 12, Yankee press conference Balkovec brilliantly answered questions from reporters. One question was about her learning Spanish. She said that she grew up in Nebraska and hadn’t learned Spanish as a child, but that as a hitting coach, she felt she needed to communicate better with some of the players.

Rachel said that it had been great for building relationships because the Spanish-speaking players kidded her about her Spanish and then taught her how to speak better Spanish, while she was able to teach them how to hit better.

She also said that being unable to find a full-time coaching job because she was a woman was a blessing, was good for her because it made her have to be better, more knowledgeable than men and, especially, more determined to succeed. She displayed the meaning of true grit. Angela Duckworth (Grit: The Power and Passion of Perseverance) and Mattie Ross (“True Grit”) would be proud.

All of the reporters who asked questions in the press conference congratulated Balkovec on being named manager of the Tarpons, and several said it was good for baseball and that it was about time.

And it is about time for baseball and for America that we have a woman leader. One reason is because, hopefully, like Rachel Balkovec, the woman who eventually leads America will have to be smarter, better prepared, more persistent, and a better communicator than the men who preceded her.

Matsui and Rivera: Behavioral Models for TV

New York Yankee World Series MVP, designated hitter Hideki Matsui, and the incomparable closer Mariano Rivera were models of mature, professional dignity in the final game of the World Series – behavior rarely seen in the trash heap of commercial television.
Matsui, the calm, taciturn Japanese slugger drove in a record-tying six runs in the sixth and final game of this year’s World Series against the scrappy Philadelphia Phillies, and Rivera, baseball’s greatest, most effective closer of all time, got the final five outs to shut down the dangerous Phillies in a 7-3 Yankee win.
These were impressive performances, but what stood out as much as their on-the-field heroics were their calm, confident, mature behavior and, most of all, their dignity – the way they handled their accomplishments. They didn’t jump up, pump their fists, look to the heavens, or even smile. They just did their jobs in a non-demonstrative, professional manner.
Dignity is rarely seen on commercial television – not on cable where WWE wrestling is the consistently top-rated program, not on cable news which features bloviating and hysterical vaudeville performers who spin opinions and sensationalism without ever landing a blow on the facts. Witness the disgraceful coverage of the recent Ft. Hood killings in which the cable news channels got it wrong for hours and depended irresponsibly on erroneous Twitter and Facebook rumors too much.
And dignity is certainly not seen on prime time television, as brilliantly analyzed and skewered by James Wolcott in the current issue (December) of Vanity Fair in a piece titled “I’m a Culture Critic…Get Me Out of Here.” Wolcott’s intelligent article isn’t up on the Web yet, so you’ll have to buy the magazine or wait until next month to get Wolcott’s superbly written piece online.
Wolcott makes the point that Reality TV has “…not only ruined network values, destroyed the classic documentary, and debased the art of bad acting, but also fomented class warfare, antisocial behavior and class warfare.” Yes! Go get ‘em James!
You’ll get no dignity on Reality TV or anywhere on commercial TV where programmers have to get ratings with programs (news and opinion programs included) that appeal to the lowest level of taste and educational attainment and to the basest of instincts.
We don’t see much dignity in sports, either; certainly not in hockey, soccer, or football. But occasionally in Major League Baseball, which is slower, more intellectual, and dominated less by raw emotion than other sports, we get glimpses of maturity and professionalism.
The Fox TV network carried the World Series and to its credit, announcer Joe Buck and analyst Tim McCarver were fittingly mature and professional in their approach, in ironic contrast to promotion spots for the local Fox-owned TV station in New York which ran in some local breaks. The promo spots were for the Fox station’s local news programs and showed scenes of silly anchors laughing, a camel snorting, and another anchor juggling to reinforce the notion of news as lowest-common-denominator vaudeville.
But in the World Series games themselves, Matsui and Rivera, from Japan and Panama respectively, were models of the kind of dignified behavior it would be nice to see on TV.
Hey, Bill O’Reilly, Glenn Beck, Sean Hannity, Jim Cramer, Low Dobbs, Keith Olbermann, and network CEOs and programmers, were you watching? Will you please try to model the behavior of these two Yankee superstars?